Hopeful, inspired to make my life count.

Not a lot has changed and I've tried to keep it that way as much as possible. The things that have changed are my perspectives on my time with those I love, my personal well-being, and my work. I'm focusing on balance, moderation, and taking care of myself as a priority.

With the exception of a cancer diagnosis, I'm living my dream life.

As a workaholic who loves her job, coming to terms with taking a large amount of time off to heal.

Not allowing 'cancer' to become who I am or how I am defined.

My husband, family, and a therapist.

When I was faced with my own mortality I started to ask myself "why am I putting off reaching that goal?" Or better yet, "why does that even matter?" I've accelerated many of my goals and set more aside. In living a life of no regrets, no matter what the duration, I have become much more purposeful.

I am still working full-time and will take 1 month off during my recovery.

I've tried to increase my communication. I seem to be less judgmental of others and more laid back.

My work is a big part of how I define myself. It gives me a sense of contributing to something bigger than myself and that keeps me going on a daily basis.

You know exactly what you need. Listen to yourself and honor that voice. Look for the inspiration in your work. Take the time you need. Ask for help. Remember to reach out for support from those around you, they need something to do while you go through this. Tap into the myriad of amazing resources available in your community.

Lots of rest and laughter

I know that today as you listen to the doctor you can't hear a word she's saying. All you can think about is running as far away as possible. Your thoughts feel like they are crashing down on top of you and you feel like your world is coming to an end.

Will I dance at my daughter's wedding? Will my husband grow old without me? I knew I should have done more yoga! Good god, will I loss my hair? Worse yet, my breasts?

Take a deep breath. Trust me. Soon you will realize that life doesn't give you anything you can't handle. This cancer diagnosis will really change your life, but more importantly it will change you in a very profound way. As cliche as it sounds, no one can change the deck they are dealt. They can only change how they play it. So take my advice and play like your life depended on it.