Julie J. on July 16, 2021
Work/Life/Cancer Balance
I was diagnosed with localized sarcoma in July 2019. I continued to work through radiation treatments, but did take a 100% short term disability leave during chemotherapy in early 2020. After finishing chemotherapy, I started working full time from home due to COVID. I also had a relapse after chemotherapy, bringing me to a stage IV diagnosis. I was a surgical candidate so I was able to remove the metastasis via surgery. I continued working, but also made a change in my care strategy, which is important in this ask. Even though I had no evidence of disease, I took a more integrative/less conventional approach and do natural treatments to hopefully prevent a recurrence. I used my home as my "base" for these natural treatments and have accumulated a home setup that allows me to do infusions and natural treatments at home. At this point, I am managing my treatments myself and I work with 2 other integrative doctors who i do virtual visits with a few times per year. I am followed by a traditional oncologist for scans. I have remained without evidence of disease since I started this approach 10 months ago. I firmly believe that my work from home treatment setup has allowed me to maintain the best of both worlds - working and healing. While my job does know about my cancer diagnosis, no one knows I've been doing all of these treatments while working. My review was very positive last year and there were no performance issues.
My office announced a mandatory return to work policy effective in the fall. I do not believe this policy is in my best interest as it will not allow me to do BOTH my job and my healing modalities, like I've been doing for the past 10 months. These treatments don't make me sick and can be done in a way where I can work while receiving them.
I would like to ask for a work from home accommodation, but am not sure how to position this, given these are not conventional treatments. While my conventional oncologist has been encouraging in my pursuits of these endeavors, he said he has a rule where he will not sign work from home papers for anyone not going through traditional treatment. I have not asked any of my integrative doctors if they will sign such papers, but plan to at my next appointment.
I would love to be able to arrange this without the formality of paperwork. Does anyone have thoughts on the best way to position this in order to put me in the best position to get my desired outcome? I have been an employee at this organization for almost 20 years and have a solid reputation as a strong performer. I do not manage people right now (this is intentional) and I work on projects that require collaboration mostly with external agencies who are not based in my town (so most of my time is spent on calls/virtual meetings).
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Nicole Jarvis, LMSW
Jul 19, 2021
Cancer and Careers Staff Comment:
Hi Julie,
Thanks for reaching out to Cancer and Careers. It’s great to hear that your integrative approach has shown promising results and you’ve been able to keep up with your job while doing so. It sounds like you’ve been productive and able to fulfill your job responsibilities during this time of working from home. The fact that you received a positive performance report is really helpful as you explore how to continue this work from home set up.
A few questions to steer your decisions and next steps: what does your job know about your current diagnosis? You said they’re aware of it but have you shared anything beyond that? Have you expressed any apprehension or concerns about returning to the office environment? Has your employer left any doors open for those who may be worried about returning to the physical office? It is certainly worth speaking with your integrative doctors about helping you with the paperwork. But based on what you’ve shared about your work performance, it sounds like you can make a pretty good case for continuing to work from home. How much longer will your integrative approach be? Could you request a temporary work from home arrangement with your job and plan to revisit in a few months to check in to see how everyone is feeling about the situation? This way, if everything is going well you can point to your positive work, but if there are some aspects they are taking issue with you can work together to address how they could be addressed.
I understand you’d prefer a less formal arrangement, however, it’s important to protect yourself as best as you can. By getting certain conversations and arrangements documented, you will have the ability to point to these decisions in a more concrete way and not be as concerned about them changing their mind or saying they didn’t agree to something. With this types of situations, you want to make sure you’re protecting yourself the best you can, despite working there for 20 years and having a good reputation. What you’ve pointed out in terms of your personal responsibilities, for instance not managing others and working with external agencies that you communicate with primarily through phone and zoom, can really strengthen your argument for working from home.
So, first thing’s first, I would encourage you to create what you believe would be an effective plan for working from home, that touches on the points you’ve mentioned and explains why this would not only be acceptable, but would help the company’s bottom line. By pointing out your daily responsibilities, your positive work performance over the last year, and how you foresee this year going forward, you will be laying the groundwork for a really solid argument. I’d encourage you to familiarize yourself with the legal protections that are available to you as well. You can read more about them in our Legal & Financial section of our website, particularly the article focused on Requesting Reasonable Accommodations. Additionally, as you prepare for your conversation with your employer, take a look at our article on Creating an Action Plan, which can help you identify what you can point to in your discussion.
Please feel free to reach out to us if you have any further questions or concerns. You can email us at cancerandcareers@cew.org.
From what you’ve shared, it does appear that you are in a strong position to ask for what you need, it’s really about doing so in a way that will be effective and leave the employer feeling comfortable with the arrangement.
Best,
Nicole
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