Hi Jenni,

I am so sorry to hear that you are struggling. I personally know those feelings and have been where you are. Please know you are not a failure.

Let me ask you, how are you going about finding a job? If you have been applying for jobs online, you will have limited success. Ask youself what you can do to expand your range of search activities. How much time are you spending networking? Networking is the way that most are finding their jobs today, in fact some say up to 80% of jobs are found that way. Start with LinkedIn.com to reconnect with people you have worked with. Go to your local unemployment office as well as the chamber of commerce to find networking groups. The amazing thing about networking is that being among people helps us feel better about ourselves in addition to opening doors of opportunity.

Write out weekly goals, including self care goals, so that you feel a sense of accomplishment each week. Tap into the amazing, strong, and proud woman that you are, and remember to be kind to yourself.

Let me know your thoughts...and how networking and goal setting might feel for you.

Warmest regards, Judith

Hi Jenni, this is great news! I will send positive energy and prayers your way.

Thank you for your input Judi. I had 2 interviews today that actually went pretty ok. I am also looking into the other professional networking sites that you suggested. Thank you again and God bless!

Jenni - you are one tough cookie. I am an oncology nurse and know getting "back to normal" is hard work. When I'm not doing my nursing job, I'm a Mary Kay consultant. It's a wonderful opportunity to work from home. The support from your fellow MK friends is priceless. The education and support from the Company puts you in the right place to be successful. The Company has wonderful values that support faith, family and career. Please let me know if you would like more information. My website: www.marykay.com/dabenjamin

You are not a failure, you are a survivor!