Margaret H. on February 16, 2017
Job Search
I have been looking for work for the past year+ and I think part of my failure to land a job is my age--I am 55, and the only indication of my age on my resume is the year I began my first listed job (I don't actually list my real first job, so my resume looks like I'm 50)! I am a corporate communications and marketing professional with a specialty in sustainability, although I have been applying to any job that's somewhat related to my skills. I have had a few interviews, and I get good initial feedback but then I don't get the job.
Now, I've just been diagnosed with breast cancer (early diagnosis, surgery tomorrow and then my docs will determine treatment). I am confident that I will eventually be fine, but this second blow has really taken my motivation away to look for a job. I have to work, I'm a single mom with a freshman in a private college--I've saved for his education but it won't get him through to senior year. So I can't afford to be in this slump. I look for a job at least six hours per weekday. I need a motivational boost! I'm afraid as I get more into debt its going to stress me out and impact my health. Thank you for any advice you can give me.
Best,
MLH
2 Comments
Nicole Franklin, MPH
Feb 16, 2017
Cancer and Careers Staff Comment:
Hi Margaret, Thanks for reaching out to us. I understand that maintaining motivation can be difficult after a long job search and being newly diagnosed, but it’s encouraging that you’ve had a few interviews and received positive feedback. You also seem to have an amazing breadth of professional experience to offer! I’m going to pass along your inquiry to our career coaches, but in the meantime, I would recommend looking over the following resources: • Job Search Toolkit (2nd edition): http://www.cancerandcareers.org/publication_orders/new • Exploring your Options: http://www.cancerandcareers.org/en/looking-for-work/exploring-your-options • Interviewing Methods and Tips: http://www.cancerandcareers.org/en/looking-for-work/interviewing/interview-methods • Resume Review Service: http://www.cancerandcareers.org/resume_reviews/new • Video on Managing Finances: http://www.cancerandcareers.org/en/community/videos/bwc/finances We also have a Job Search webinar on March 8th, that might provide some useful insight. Information and registration can be found here: http://www.cancerandcareers.org/en/community/events/webinar-jobsearch2017 Our career coaches will be in touch soon! Kind regards, Nicole Franklin, MPH Manager of Programs Cancer and Careers
Kathy F.
Feb 17, 2017
Margaret,
First of all, and more than anything else I could say, I send my blessings to you to carry you through your surgery tomorrow and consultations with Oncologists/Radiologists over the next few days. I remember the frantic feeling that can come from facing so much at one time, especially facing so much of the unknown. The need to be in as much control as possible during such an uncontrollable situation can be overwhelming. As one who has been there, if I could say anything to help you right now, it would be to consciously take a short pause, to center your spirit on yourself and your healing, and to trust that once you are through this medical crisis, your job search will be there and you will tackle it then. Now is not the time for worry about anything except walking yourself gently through the next few days. Draw on the love of your friends, the support of your family, and the knowledge of your medical team - and breathe through this, just for now.
Then, once you are through the surgery and know more about the next steps in your recovery, your mind and heart will be more able to think and act on that job search. You are an accomplished woman with outstanding experience and it comes through clearly in your inquiry. There will be answers to your fears and concerns, and there will be a job that is right for you.
Do take advantage of the resources that Nicole mentioned above when you are ready... but first, take care of yourself.
Please write back soon and let us know how you are doing. Happy to provide a few job search tips then. I will be thinking about you tomorrow, my sister in survival.
Warmly,
Kathy Flora, Career Coach
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