Alice--that thread you point out is me :-) Boy, I guess it's true, you never know what treatment might bring. My intent was to work FT through treatment but I had infections and other complications that made moving home temporarily what was best for me.

Rosalind--thanks for your comments. As you can see, I may be "overthinking" things, or trying to control too much. Right now, I've decided to step back from work until at least chemo is over, possibly even through radiation. So I don't plan on doing any consulting work, even remotely. I don't want to share with prospective clients my situation (since they don't know me) so I've decided to keep it general ("not taking on new projects right now" and/or "am dealing with a health issue and am not working"). I prefer the first answer--that gives me more flexibility to either work with them later or at least, not "freak them out."

What bums me out is that I feel as if other consultants might be taking advantage of my situation to benefit their own pocket, but I guess that's business and I can't control what others do.

As for future employment, I guess you're right, don't say anything until I have an offer (and then disclose for insurance purposes) Though, DC can be a small town, I wonder if potential employers might hear through the grapevine (in which case I can't control that either!)

I don't MIND people knowing I have cancer if they know me and my work product. But I also think CANCER "freaks" people out in general.

Thanks again for your comments!

Hi Jennifer,

I also want to point out another thread on our site dealing with similar issues that you may also find helpful. It is located here: http://cancerandcareers.org/career-coaching/self-employed--newly-diagnosed/.

Best,

Alice

Jennifer -

I'm impressed with how you've thought through your options and how clearly you understand the implications of your actions. But these are very tough challenges to face and no doubt, you haven't had experience with this before.

Let's start with what you tell "prospects" or clients now. Beyond what you've said thus far, what are you comfortable with saying? Did you craft your response purely for business reasons or do you have "issues" with people knowing that you are living with cancer? Also, it's hard to create a message that doesn't get incorrectly translated third hand. From what you've written, it sounds as if you want to be sure you've got a worklife to return to. But how much can you take on now? Do you want to be more pro active or take a step back? It sounds like you're hearing some things that make you uneasy. But it's hard to know what's true and isn't and the uneasiness can be hard to manage when you're already dealing with treatment.



As for the next job, are you ready to know what you want to do now? If so and you're sure that employment makes the most sense, it sounds like you have some time to think about this. But, you're also right that there will be some challenges there. Regarding disclosure, my experience is that this depends on whether you're experiencing symptoms that affect your performance. But, there are some benefits policies that will exclude you if you don't disclose initially. Regarding the employment gap, I don't understand why it would be an issue since you were self employed. You will get questions about why you're leaving self employment and that can make finding a job tougher. Crafting your resume and your statement will be very important so you position your strengths.

When the time comes, you might want to get some career help so you face the return from a position using all your considerable talents and strengths.

Warmly,

Rosalind

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